Start with Prayer: The Most Powerful Thing You Can Do for Your Marriage
- parenthoodsurvivor
- May 31
- 2 min read
When it comes to our marriages, we often go looking for fixes.
A book.
A podcast.
A conversation with a friend.
A change in our spouse.
But what if the strongest move we could make wasn’t a fix at all—what if it was prayer?
Too often, we treat prayer like a last resort. We turn to it when everything else feels like it’s not working. But the truth is: prayer should be the first step, not the fallback plan.
Praying for your spouse isn't just a nice thing to do—it's a powerful and essential act of love. It's how we fight for each other. It's how we soften our own hearts. It's how we invite God into the everyday moments of our marriage—the highs, the lows, the silent tensions, and the deep joys.
When you pray for your spouse:
You begin to see them the way God sees them.
You become more aware of their burdens, hopes, and needs.
You stop trying to control what only God can change.
You lay down your own expectations and let God do what only He can.
This isn’t about perfect words or long prayers. It’s about faithful, daily connection—talking to the One who created your spouse, your marriage, and every good thing you long for.
It’s easy to overlook, especially in busy seasons. But this one daily rhythm can reshape your entire relationship. I’ve seen it happen—in my own heart and in others’. Prayer moves us closer to God and to each other. It humbles us, strengthens us, and invites real change.
So let this be your reminder:Before the advice, the venting, the fixing... start with prayer.
And don’t stop.
If you want help knowing how to pray for your husband or wife in a more focused way, there’s a 30-day prayer challenge available on Amazon that can guide you day by day:
But whether you use a resource or not—just begin.
Pray often.
Pray boldly.
Pray first.
God is working.
Do you pray for your spouse daily?
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